FAQ
Frequent Questions
What services do funeral directors perform?
A funeral director helps guide families through the many details that follow a loss, so you don’t have to manage them alone. From the moment a loved one comes into our care through the day of the service and beyond, we provide professional support, coordination, and compassionate guidance.
This includes caring for your loved one, meeting with your family to plan services, handling required paperwork, coordinating with cemeteries or cremation providers, arranging obituaries, and overseeing all aspects of the service. Just as importantly, we are here to answer questions, offer reassurance, and support you through a difficult time.
Why are funerals so expensive?
Funeral costs reflect the professional services, facilities, and coordination involved in honoring a life. Expenses may include care and preparation of your loved one, use of the funeral home and staff, transportation, printed materials, and selected merchandise such as a casket or urn. Cemetery-related costs, such as plots or vaults, are separate and referred to as “cash advances.”
We believe in transparency and will walk through all options with you, helping you make informed decisions that align with your needs, wishes, and budget.
What is the purpose of a funeral?
Each of these services offers a meaningful way to honor a life and support those who are grieving. While the terms are often used interchangeably, they generally describe different approaches based on timing, structure, and tone, and there is no right or wrong
choice.
- A funeral service is typically held soon after a death and includes the presence of the deceased.
- A memorial service takes place without the body present and can be held days, weeks, or months later.
- A celebration of life often focuses more on storytelling, shared memories, and the personality of the individual, and may feel less formal in structure.
All three provide space to remember, reflect, and connect. We help families choose the option, or combination of options, that feels most appropriate and healing.
Can you still have a funeral if you choose cremation?
Yes. Cremation is simply one form of final disposition. Families may still choose to have a visitation and service (funeral, memorial service or celebration of life), either before or after cremation. The service can be traditional, personalized, religious, or secular, depending on your wishes.
What is the difference between a funeral and memorial service?
- A funeral service generally occurs with the deceased present and often follows more traditional elements.
- A memorial service is held without the body present and offers flexibility in timing.
- A celebration of life typically places greater emphasis on personal stories, memories, music, and shared reflection, and may be more informal in tone.
There is no “right” choice, only what feels most meaningful for your family and your loved one.
Do I have to have a funeral service?
No. Funeral services are not required by law. However, many families find comfort in gathering to remember, reflect, and support one another. We are here to help you decide what feels right for your family.
What are my options for final disposition?
Final disposition options commonly include burial, cremation, or donation to science.
Each option can be paired with a service or gathering, or none at all, based on personal preference. We will explain each option clearly so you can make an informed choice.
Can I personalize the funeral?
Yes. Personalization is encouraged and often deeply meaningful. Families may choose to include music, readings, photographs, videos, personal items, or opportunities for friends and family to share memories. These personal touches help create a service that truly reflects the life being honored.
For families who choose a non-clergy service, a professional celebrant can help guide the ceremony. Celebrants work closely ith families to tell the story of a life, incorporate meaningful reflections or rituals, and create a service that feels authentic, inclusive, and healing, whether the tone is traditional, secular, or celebratory.
Is embalming required?
Embalming is not required by law in all situations. It may be recommended or required in certain circumstances, such as when a viewing is requested or for transportation purposes. We will explain when embalming is necessary and discuss alternatives when appropriate.
What is the Purpose of Embalming
Embalming is a process that helps temporarily preserve and care for the body after death. In some situations, such as when families choose to have a public viewing or visitation before burial or cremation, embalming may be recommended or required.
Beyond preservation, embalming can also help restore a more natural appearance,
particularly when a death involved illness or injury. This allows families time to gather, say goodbye, and make thoughtful, personalized arrangements without feeling rushed.
We will always explain when embalming is needed, discuss available options, and help you decide what feels most appropriate for your family and your wishes.
Can we have a viewing if my loved one has donated organs or had an autopsy
Yes. Autopsies and organ donation do not affect your ability to have an open-casket viewing.
How can I be sure the cremated remains I receive are those my loved one
Families often ask this question, and it’s an important one. Cremation is a carefully regulated process, and cremating more than one person at a time is illegal in the United States.
From the moment your loved one is placed into our care, strict identification and tracking procedures are followed. A unique identification number accompanies your loved one throughout the entire process and remains with the cremated remains afterward. Detailed checks and documentation are completed at each step to ensure accuracy and accountability.
You can be assured that your loved one is treated with dignity and respect at all times, and that the cremated remains returned to you are only those of your loved one.
Where can I scatter my loved one's cremated remains? Are there restrictions?
In many cases, there are few formal restrictions, but it’s always important to check local guidelines. Some public areas, such as parks or waterways, may require permission or have specific rules. If you plan to scatter on private property, the landowner’s consent is needed.
What is a Columbarium
A columbarium is a structure designed to hold urns containing cremated remains. It is typically located within a mausoleum, chapel, cemetery, or memorial garden and includes individual niches for placement of urns.
For many families, a columbarium provides a permanent place of remembrance, a location where loved ones can visit, reflect, and honor a life.

